A Valentine’s Day Message of Bitterness and Loathing

Andrew Anglin
Daily Stormer
February 14, 2015

I try to keep things positive on this site (an obvious lie), but today I have something different: a message of bitterness and loathing in honor of a day singled out for a celebration of romantic love.

You see, brothers, I have come to realize a harsh but inescapable fact: it is not a viable option for a White man to secure a permanent relationship with a White woman within the current paradigm of society.  Due to effective engineering of the female species over a number of decades, there simply is no workable scenario wherein one can imagine finding a White woman and living happily ever after.

We will note that I am not saying that it doesn’t happen.  It does.  It is just that when it does, it is aught but a fluke – a series of unlikely circumstances, combined, leads to a situation which could not have been planned.  I don’t personally know anyone it’s happened to, but I know of it having happened (then again, maybe those cases just haven’t fallen apart yet – people are now getting divorces in their 40s and 50s).

Let me list the reasons the romantic dream is absolutely impossible to seek after and achieve.  Please note that this is mostly learned from observation, as I haven’t really had any relationships that lasted more than a few weeks in my entire life.  However, the observation has been keen.  This is something I think a lot about.

Firstly, most women are not interested in getting married until they are much past their prime, at which point they are not interesting.  Women below the age of 25, which is pretty well what all men below the age of 65 are looking for, have been completely brainwashed with silly nonsense about how they are going to start their own fashion design company and just have to work a few decades in an office before they can get down to business.  Plus, now they want to go on backpacking adventures across Asia and whatever else – a bunch of things they have been told they want to do but actually won’t ever do or won’t get any fulfilment when they do actually do.

Society has somehow convinced these women that this is what they want – to conquer some grand capitalist/artistic/spiritual endeavor – and convinced them that if they want something different – say, what women always wanted, which was a caring, strong husband and children – they are weak.

On top of this – and this is the kicker – society has failed to explain to these women that once they get to be 26 -29, this attention they are used to getting from men all day everyday will drop off, and their social capital will come down like the WTC.  In what is the height of institutionalized cruelty, women are told that men will care about their college degree and career, when in reality these things are, if anything, looked at as negatives by men.  On top of that, the plastic surgery-ridden and photoshopped models and celebrities plastered up everywhere make them believe that sexual attractiveness lasts past 30.

High schools should teach 16-year-old girls that they are at the peak of their sexual power over men, and everything from there is going to be down hill, until they are 30 and men won’t even bother to look at them, let alone follow them around like servant boys everywhere they go (granted here that certain genetics plus taking care of yourself can make this last longer for women, but not too much longer – I have seen smoking hot 32-year-old women, but they were tennis players and yoga fanatics who only shopped at Whole Foods and didn’t drink alcohol; still, even in those cases, fertility is wrapping itself up).  But high schools don’t teach that.  Instead they take women, who naturally want to get married and produce babies, and force them to become sick and malformed psychological wrecks.

At some point, the programming takes so well for the majority of females that they become completely useless for all but one thing.  And then they’re thirty and not really good for that one thing anymore, and wow – not good for anything else either.  They gave up the natural pleasantness and caring they were born with in order to pretend to become men and so when the looks go, there is nothing at all of any value left.  What, are you going to sit around and have an intellectual conversation with her?  Please, if you are a man, and you have had an interesting intellectual conversation with a woman, tell me about it in the comments – specifically, tell me the idea that she came at you with that you hadn’t thought of before.  Tying to have an intellectual conversation with a woman is like trying to play fetch with a cat.

The thing that we like about conversations with women is that we can tell them about things we can’t tell men, and they can grasp them in a way another man cannot.  If a woman gives up her femininity, in order to take on the identity of a man, she loses the natural positives of the female being – and don’t get me wrong here, there are very, very many of those positives, and they are invaluable – and is never able to take on the positives of a man.

So then, having figured all of this out, the obvious plan of any man trying to figure out a traditional relationship with a woman is to find a woman as young as possible (literally, depending on age of consent laws, as young as is legally possible – definitely under 20), drop the looks standards from the 8-9 range to the 6-7 range, and somehow get to her before the brainwashing fully sinks in, and brainwash her yourself.  Of course, for this to work, you have to have the money to trap her in a situation she can’t escape, and on top of that, you would have to get her pregnant immediately and stop her family from convincing her to have an abortion.

Oh, but then she’s got the kid, and she’s got her friends who are jealous of her situation and due to that jealousy try to take her away from it, like when these Gloria Steinem whores used to crash weddings and chant “here comes the slave, off to her grave.”  And then she meets some guy who’s like “bitch, get in my car, I’m gonna take you for a ride on my motorcycle – it’s got cocaine in the glove compartment and I’m a VIP at the greatest disco ever where bitches are taking their shirts off and getting sprayed with shaving foam 24/7.”

And given the laws in Western countries, she can leave you and take the baby and you have to work like a slave for 18 years to pay for it while her mother is raising it and she’s out at the disco getting hosed with shaving foam before the all-night cocaine party.  You have no recourse.  Literally, nothing.  They will put you in jail if you don’t pay, and you can in fact be extradited over it if you try to flee the country.  Unless you can somehow get citizenship in Morocco or North Korea, or if you want to permanently disappear and burn your passport in a third world village in Guatamala or something, your existence has just become doomed.  Because if no good deed goes unpunished, no attempt to lead a good life goes without having your life completely destroyed

Romantic Love as a Hoax, Common Mistakes of Youth

People are still obviously having these short-term (less than 5 year) relationships with the opposite sex, but they – pretty well universally – never go anywhere.

Women are largely driven by this conception of romantic love, which is really just sexual seduction but was turned by the Jews, through media, into a sacred and spiritual concept.  Romantic love says that you find “the one” and that when you find it, you are happy forever.  The sad fact is, the more you get to know a person, the less sexually attracted to them you are.  Anyone who has had a super-hot or even moderately-hot girlfriend is aware of this fact.  That is because “romantic love” i.e. sexual infatuation, is a natural mechanism for ensuring that men and women couple.  Following the coupling, it is meant that they develop another form of love, a deeper bonding, which is really not sexual in nature at all.  The same type of love you feel for family members.  Maybe you still buy her flowers every once and a while, but you do the same for your mother.

Men still are generally capable of understanding this, because men are prone toward seeking stability.  If you have a girlfriend for six months, and she doesn’t really get you all that worked up, you maybe only have sex once or twice a week and it is rather routine, you don’t mind, because you now feel comfortable with the woman.  You like her for different reasons than you originally did.  You like that she knows you, that you can tell her things you are feeling and she knows how to make you feel better.  You like that you have a routine, that you feel comfortable, and you are ready to have kids.  But you probably don’t have the money to have kids.  So then she gets bored.  Then some Black guy at the gas station is like “hey you bitch, whatcho know about my dick? I is botta puttin to you.”  And just like that, she’s gone.  And it doesn’t have to be a Black guy, that is an extreme case, it can also be some hipster dweeb who is well below you on the alpha scale and yet seduces her because she is bored of you and he made her feel like she is sexy again, which you don’t do because you don’t find her sexy anymore given that you’ve had sex with her hundreds of times.

Aggressive Black guy or whining hipster dweeb fawning over her, the situation ends the same: boom – locks are changed when you get home from work, arrangements are made for you to pick up your things, then your number is blocked in her phone.  Forever.

Women have a high capacity for psychopathic behavior.  She can literally make you feel as though she never knew you, that you are below nothing.  You can catch a woman you spent years with, who you loved with your entire being, you can fall on your knees and weep and beg for her to simply listen to what you have to say to her, and she can look at you like you are less than a dog and walk away.

Looking at evolutionary biology – which all human relational and in fact all behavior dynamics of all sorts are based on, whether you like it or not – a woman in a natural age would be highly likely to be kidnapped by some other tribe or army, and she would then have to shut off emotions for her previous lover basically immediately and adopt to the new man who held her in order to keep from being disregarded as not worth the hassle and killed.  That’s where this capacity to simply turn you off after a three year relationship comes from.  It’s not her fault.

Speaking of her faults – none of this is her fault.  Too many men become angry at women over all of this, and that is faggy beta-male whining, really following the feminist idea that women have some form of control over their own emotions and thus their own behavior.  Women react to environments and stimulation, period.  They don’t make decisions in the way that men make decisions, by processing information.  Their decision-making process is based entirely on emotion, and the emotion is stimulated exclusively by external forces, meaning they are not sovereign beings.  This was just a known fact all throughout history – something that you could have said either one of your grandfathers and they would be like “yeah, and?” Yet somehow in the modern world, even if it isn’t met with resistance, this information comes across as “whoa dude, you’re blowing my mind.”

Notes on Basic Beta-Male Faggotry

As I am rambling about relationships, I will mention what seems to be an ongoing problem for men, who don’t even get to the level we are talking about here: no gfism.

I generally assume that men who get into this sort of right-wing material have experience with women beyond what the average male has, but we all know the sort of modern man who literally has no experience at all with women, and has been sold the lie that they are some type of magical creatures just because they are nice to look at, and so believes that they have some type of logical thinking and if he is capable of showing them certain aspects of himself that he believes are deep or interesting, the woman will be interested in him because of it.  Counter-intuitive as it is, the less a woman knows about you as a person, the more attracted to you she is likely to be (this is in the initial phase of courting, after that she desires to take on everything you believe).

This whole “nice guy” approach fits into all of this that I am speaking on, in that it is a result of feminism; in order to believe you can woo a woman by making her think you are interesting, you accept the basic premise that a woman thinks like a man, which could not be any more false.

Then comes all of this “pick-up artist” material, which is a basic snake-oil Jew hoax.  Women being attracted to men who exhibit dominate traits is an obvious fact, but all this “game” nonsense is just goofball claptrap.  If you want to meet women, you just have to approach every one that you see that you like.  I am talking about on the street or shops or whatever, the clubs and bars are just a gigantic hoax – it is a scam for women to go out and get attention and confirmation that they are beautiful and desired, because for women being wanted for sex is what they crave, the actual sex is something they could almost do without completely.

When approaching girls in public places, in my experience, about 75% of them will reject you outright, but that still leaves a lot of hot women who are at least going to let you talk for a few minutes.  And my numbers are going to be significantly lower than most guys (who are equally thin, confident, clever, etc – none of which is particularly hard and which you should be anyway), given that I’m 5’7″, and height is the first thing all women recognize in the same way men first recognize hip-to-waist ratio.  If you have personal confidence, and take the position that you have so much to offer that if a woman doesn’t want her that is her own loss, then you won’t have any issues just approaching women on the street, because your self-confirmation comes from inside you, not in the reactions of women.

The thing is, it doesn’t really even matter.  Yeah, you are way more likely to get laid if you don’t act like a complete bitch living in fear of women, and I do understand that this is a biological need. But even for extreme alpha males, they aren’t really getting laid very often. Trust me, I have known some serious studs.  Any man who claims he is getting laid constantly with young hot girls is lying.  And the amount of emotional energy chasing women just for sex requires (assuming you are looking for women under 25 and you aren’t in school) is so high that you would have to have some sort of pathology to be willing to put that energy into it for such small amounts of physical pleasure.

Mostly, I view men who have an obsession with trying to rack-up numbers of sex partners as harboring serious personal insecurity, needing these “conquests” in order to confirm their own value (conversely, they could just have nothing at all going on in their lives, and view it as a hobby; but with all of the information available nowadays, all the learning you can engage in, you would have to be a boring person to be that bored).  And if you base your self-worth on what women think of you, you are a victim of feminism, period.

The inverse of that is true as well – if you have a fear of women, you have other psychological problems to do with masculinity you need to deal with.  Needing approval from women is always pathetic, and demonstrates deep-rooted psychological problems.

But let me clue you in on the bottom line, brothers:

If you are looking for a serious relationship with a woman, as most men presumably are once they reach a certain level of emotional and intellectual maturity, it makes no difference what your orientation is.  You are completely damned.

I don’t know what else to say.  These are simply the facts of the matter.

Thanks, Jews

Ultimately, like everything else which has ever gone wrong in history, this is the fault of the Jews.  It was all Jews which promoted this feminism, just like it was a Jew in the Garden of Eden who screwed everything up with that fruit scandal.

This is Where I should Insert Something Positive

I don’t really have anything positive to close with.  The situation really is this bad.  In order to fix this situation, we would have to completely change society on a fundamental level, rolling back the last 60 years of feminism.  You could do it, of course, and I don’t even think women would resist, as they are more unhappy than we are in this situation.  When you look at the eyes of the average  modern woman, she looks completely insane.  And we can at least go out with women and have fun until we’re too old to be interested.  For a woman, once she hits 35, if she is childless, she is doomed to 40 years of being completely and utterly alone.  We can do the loner thing, and not really suffer too much.

The one possible solution is Slavic women, but I’ve tried it and… well, it is not any sort of perfect solution, I’m not going to go into the details of why right now.  And in that case you would have to actually stay in her country, because if you brought her to the West she would do you the same as an Anglo woman.  The mean reason they still behave themselves is that they still have close family ties, and if she was away from the eyes of her family, it would only be a matter of time.

There are other tricks, perhaps.  A woman who already has one kid and the father is completely gone, or if you can find a woman who is thirty and doesn’t have the baggage that most 30-year-old women have, it could work.

And maybe I’m being too extreme here.  That is a definite possibility.  Maybe I am overly jaded.  Maybe I’ve overly generalized.  I can’t say for certain.  Again, what I have outlined is a series of generalized observations.  Personally, I don’t know one man – except Russians/Slavs – who have permanent healthy relationships with women.  But maybe my experience is a bad filter.

There is one bit of good news.  I think the White birthrate crisis is basically sensationalism, in that it is based on comparing our numbers to the numbers of the hordes.  If it was not for the hordes encroaching, we could really continue on as a race with 25% of our present population, and even though relationships aren’t working out, White people are still having kids. I know that is breaking from conventional wisdom in pro-White circles, but our problem is the number of the hordes, and more specifically, that they are invading our countries.  Due to automation, we don’t really need to be expanding.

So for me, that takes the pressure off.  We aren’t going to save the White race by having babies.  We are going to save the White race by fighting.  So the best advice I have for men is to put women out of their minds as much as is possible.  If you want to keep a girlfriend around, do it, but don’t make it something you can’t live without and don’t take it too seriously.  Unless you really have found a magic situation.  In which case I salute you, and invite you to write next year’s Valentine’s Day essay.